The biggest opportunity that you have to successfully achieve your ambitions in life is to understand your potential and fully develop it. The challenge that most people face in successfully developing their potential is that they use the conventional methods that everyone else uses, which are largely ineffective. In reality people can then feel overwhelmed and stuck , when we feel like something is beyond our reach or something that we are unable to define this is when we can then feel out of control and give up or use it as yet another opportunity to beat ourselves up! Happiness, harnessing the power of your emotions becomes something ‘other’ and not within our reach, trust me when I say that this doesn’t have to be the case. The approach I use with my clients is to bring what you think of being ‘other’ into your world and become part of you.
These conventional ways of working with your potential involve idealising it, imagining what could be, imagining what it will be like when you have actually realised your potential. The challenge with idealising your potential, placing it at some point in your future, is that it actually distances you from truly realising your potential. It can feel that we are constantly striving for something that is out of reach and constantly changing moving in and out of focus - how draining is that !!
Real change becomes possible when we are placed right in the middle of it and the conductor of change rather than being blown this way and that.
I have developed an approach that doesn't put personal change as some distant 'object' in an uncertain future but rather something that is fully accessible in the here and now. My approach is to help you integrate your experiences both internally and externally and to work and shape the interaction between both your internal and external realities.
Taking this approach is a much more empowering than many other traditional strategies that take the stance that you MUST take control and change everything in the external environment and do not take into account the importance of your inner world. It is little wonder that people feel overwhelmed and powerless when confronted with this mountain of change!
Understanding and working with both your internal and external world will provide you with a true sense of control and the keys to unlock your potential right now and become the person you want to be and deserve to be.